剧情介绍
伊娃（蒂尔达·斯文顿 Tilda Swinton 饰）是一名梦想周游世界的职业女性，但突如其来的婚姻和意外的怀孕使她放弃了自己的理想，成为了一名家庭主妇。可是，她的牺牲换来的却只有失望。从小凯文（Jasper Newell 饰）就不是个令人省心的孩子，无休止的哭闹，对母亲的关怀无动于衷，对于这样一个孩子，伊娃难免有些自暴自弃。很快，一个小女儿的诞生打破了僵局，遗憾的是，小姑娘天生失语，这悲惨经历更是让伊娃将自己全部的爱倾注在了她的身上。
成年后的凯文（埃兹拉·米勒 Ezra Miller 饰）与母亲之间的距离越来越远，倒是和父亲颇为亲近，他爱好射箭，父亲便送了一副弓箭给他，没想到，正是这副弓箭带给了这个家庭以及整个社会一次破灭性的打击。凯文到底怎么了？谁也无法回答，就连凯文自己，面对这样一个问题，也只能沉默以对。 Eva Khatchadourian is trying to piece together her life following the "incident". Once a successful travel writer, she is forced to take whatever job comes her way, which of late is as a clerk in a travel agency. She lives a solitary life as people who know about her situation openly shun her, even to the point of violent actions toward her. She, in turn, fosters that solitary life because of the incident, the aftermath of which has turned her into a meek and scared woman. That incident involved her son Kevin Khatchadourian, who is now approaching his eighteenth birthday. Eva and Kevin have always had a troubled relationship, even when he was an infant. Whatever troubles he saw, Franklin, Eva's complacent husband, just attributed it to Kevin being a typical boy. The incident may be seen by both Kevin and Eva as his ultimate act in defiance against his mother.
成年后的凯文（埃兹拉·米勒 Ezra Miller 饰）与母亲之间的距离越来越远，倒是和父亲颇为亲近，他爱好射箭，父亲便送了一副弓箭给他，没想到，正是这副弓箭带给了这个家庭以及整个社会一次破灭性的打击。凯文到底怎么了？谁也无法回答，就连凯文自己，面对这样一个问题，也只能沉默以对。 Eva Khatchadourian is trying to piece together her life following the "incident". Once a successful travel writer, she is forced to take whatever job comes her way, which of late is as a clerk in a travel agency. She lives a solitary life as people who know about her situation openly shun her, even to the point of violent actions toward her. She, in turn, fosters that solitary life because of the incident, the aftermath of which has turned her into a meek and scared woman. That incident involved her son Kevin Khatchadourian, who is now approaching his eighteenth birthday. Eva and Kevin have always had a troubled relationship, even when he was an infant. Whatever troubles he saw, Franklin, Eva's complacent husband, just attributed it to Kevin being a typical boy. The incident may be seen by both Kevin and Eva as his ultimate act in defiance against his mother.
极端的恨就是说不出口的爱，母子戏很有张力也很典型；妈妈就😦😬🙁😦，她不接受也不爱这个小孩，小孩是知道的，加之小孩也比较聪明吧，其实分开可能会有改变，离开刺激物，偏偏越是恨的越是不甘离开。
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女主演技厉害，男主帅死了。
致郁系…
WoW壁花少年我居然到现在还没有看👀
忽视生命就是忽视自己，剪辑很有风格。
很不安，很不安，看这片子真是够头疼，这几乎就是宿命的悲剧，从摄影，剪辑，情节安排，尤其最后问出那个“为什么”？几乎气氛到了的问题，结尾灰暗，确实不讨人喜欢，但拍法惊悚到位了。
人生中起绝大作用的天生的一些东西，从受精卵那一刻已经注定了，基本无解。很震撼的好片子，推荐。
演员都很牛逼，看了一些就猜到了…不过还是挺好看…
厌恶是无法隐藏的，年龄再小也能感觉到。他的出生是一场意外，但是母亲的厌恶却不是意外，悲剧也不是意外。
电影整体不好看，这种孽子早早捏死最好
一部说不出来的邪恶的家庭剧，大热天看真“消暑”了。剧中微表情的细节与BGM的嘲讽都拉满，古一法师的演技绝壁可以去争争奥斯卡。伊娃之子所透出来的冰冷感，好像与生俱来带着报复人世的技能。表达技法很高明，用母亲伊娃的回忆时间，分段还原凯文的成长，如何变得越来越失控。同样是反省社会暴力的主题可以比较另一部《系统破坏者》。《凯文怎么了》会叫人绝望，没有人是生来知道怎么做父母的，如片中中产家庭的提供，这样还不够下一代子女神智正常。那我这种弱小生物能正常长大，真是太苟且侥幸了。
到底怎么了？这样的儿子真是天杀的
影片从一开始就不停的插叙倒叙乱序叙。所以千万不能走神。埃兹拉·米勒这个男孩相当惊艳！表情眼神里都是戏！尤其第一个镜头，回眸的眼神里满满都是挑衅、叛逆、抗争和不屑。但他很帅，而且是那种非常难得的痞帅痞帅的。比如，让他去饰演青少年版的汉·索罗就完全适合。配得上中青年时期的哈里森·福特。
插叙倒叙直叙的剪辑运用的炉火纯青，让整个电影充满破碎又被心灵净化的悲怆感。恶魔之恶不在施恶，而在于毒心，是母亲的缺失关爱与自我内心的矛盾，反反复复，犹犹豫豫，长长短短，塑造成恶魔之子。要用恶来打败母亲，可是最后却不知道母亲要已成为圣母之爱打不死你，风风雨雨依旧在乱与自我中独立的。射在他人身上的箭矢，可曾有一箭射中母亲的心？没有。她已是恶之塑母，永摧不朽的不倒翁。而解决这点电影没有答案，可见《我们与恶的距离》就好在了这里。蒂尔达·斯文顿表演张力真的好，破碎与飘絮，沉沦与新生的过度一气呵成，而小闪一辈子的演技高光就在这里了吧。现实依旧拉屎需要纸尿裤那种。